Road to Paris: Bobby Body and the Power of Positive Thinking
The veteran-turned-para powerlifter never imagined being a world-class athlete when he had two legs—now he’s got Paralympic gold in his sights
Words by Samantha Pak
Road to Paris: The 2024 Summer Olympics and Paralympics in Paris are less than a year away, and athletes around the world are gearing up to go for the gold—including AA+PI athletes throughout the United States. Normally we’re all about shirking the unrealistic expectations put on our community to excel, but as we gear up for next year’s summer games, we are here to celebrate the outstanding AA+PI athletes getting ready to compete for their country. Read on to learn more about their road to Paris!
Persevere and think positive, and good things will happen. That’s the message Bobby Body relays whenever he’s asked to speak at high schools and other public speaking events.
This wilful optimism is more than just words—it’s the mindset that’s gotten Body through a great deal: growing up in the foster care system, serving in the military (from which he was medically retired after sustaining injuries that led to his left leg being amputated), being the first American para powerlifter to win gold at the Parapan American Games in November 2023 in Santiago, Chile. And now, he’s got his sights set on the Paralympic Games this August.
Body, born to a Korean mother and Black father, has only been competing in his sport for three years, but is already ranked number five in his weight class (up to 107 kilograms). He’ll be 50 by this summer, but as he puts it, “age is just a number and I'm getting better—even at 49.”
I recently spoke with Body about his journey into para powerlifting, what his win in Santiago meant to him, the transition of becoming an amputee, and more.
This interview has been edited for clarity and length.
Samantha Pak: Tell me a little bit about your early life. Were you into sports back then?
Bobby Body: My life was a little complicated. My mother left when I was 5, and my father was active-duty army, but then he went to prison when I was 10. My sister and I grew up in an orphanage. We were in foster care until graduating from high school.
While living at the orphanage, they had their own gymnasium and athletic coaches. That's where I learned how to play sports. I tried to get involved with as many sports as I possibly could, everything from tennis to figure skating. When I got to high school, I played football in the fall, and I wrestled in the wintertime, and then I ran track. I was supposed to go to college on a track scholarship, but (the college) cut the program my freshman year. But I did play rugby in college.
I went into the Marine Corps after I left college but I didn't last very long due to an injury and so I got a medical discharge. Then after 9/11 happened, I felt obligated to rejoin the military. That's when I ended up going into the army. That was in 2004, got deployed in 2005, and then got injured in February 2006.
SP: What was your injury?
BB: I got hit by a roadside bomb to the side of the Humvee that I was in. It blew the door into my left arm and my left leg. When I got medevaced home, I had surgery on my arm right away, and went through several surgeries on my leg to save my leg. It wasn't until 2013 that they decided to take the leg off.
SP: I don't even know how to go from there. [Laughs]
BB: [Laughs]
SP: Because that's a big life change. I'm assuming that that was the end of your military career—or at least active duty?
BB: The amputation didn't come ‘til after the military, but after so many surgeries, the army said I couldn't stay. Because I couldn't run anymore, I couldn't do a whole lot. But because I fought so hard to stay in the military, instead of just getting a medical discharge, they gave me a medical retirement, which was nice.
(After the amputation in 2013), I was also seeing a PTSD therapist. He had recommended, to let out aggression, to start going to the gym more and start hitting the weights. That's how I got into powerlifting. I started lifting a lot of heavy weights, and the owners of the gym said, “Have you ever considered powerlifting?” At first I was like, “I'm an amputee. I can't do stuff like that.” And they were like, “You'll be surprised.” And so I did able-bodied powerlifting for a while and I was very successful at it.
And then the Olympic coaches contacted me in 2015 and wanted me to do para powerlifting. At first I was like, “No, I don't want to do it.” They reached out again in 2019. And I was going to do it and was actually meeting with them on a regular basis. And then COVID hit. And during COVID, I ended up having two more surgeries.
And then after I got done with rehab on the second surgery, at the gym that I started going to there just so happened to be a guy that was on Team USA. And it just so happened that day (when we met), he had a Zoom call with their high-performance manager. And so she was like, “Okay, so for a third time, would you do this?”
SP: And what year was this?
BB: This was in 2021. And I said, “Yeah, I'll do it.”
This was probably March, April 2021. They had a qualifier meet in July to make the team and I made the team. My first competition was a World Championships. But I ended up doing well, placing second in my group, ninth overall, behind all the guys that went to the Paralympic Games. So I was pretty happy.
From there, I was like, “Now I have to figure out how to get myself to that high-performance, elite level so I can get to the Paralympic Games.” I trained my behind off and kept at it. And in every competition, I've gotten better. I've been in the sport since 2021 and I'm now ranked number five. And at the Parapan American Games, I was able to come home with a gold medal.
SP: Can you explain what the Parapan and Pan American Games are?
BB: The Pan Am and Parapan Games are for North America and South America. It's the western hemisphere's Olympic and Paralympic Games. It's only held once every four years—just like the Olympic and Paralympic Games. It’s always around the year of the (Olympic and Paralympic) Games because for a lot of the sports, that's their qualifier.
(In powerlifting), for my weight class, the same guy has won the last three (Parapan American Games). I trained so hard for this one and told the coaches, “He's got to go down.”
The U.S.—men and women—for para powerlifting, we've never had a gold medalist before. So I got really emotional when we finally got to hear the national anthem. They're like, “Did you realize that you're the first gold medalist the U.S. has ever had for para powerlifting?”
SP: Congratulations! That's a pretty big deal.
BB: I was so speechless. I didn't even know what to say when I went to the media area. I cried during the national anthem. I couldn't sing it. I really didn't have very many words, because I was so overwhelmed with emotion. So it's been great, and now we have two competitions left before Paris.
SP: When is the qualifier for you?
BB: For powerlifting what they do is they have five mandatory meets in a quad and they wait until the final mandatory meet before they make their selection procedures for the Paralympic Games. I won't find out until June 26.
SP: You have gone through a lot. Not just with the amputation and your military injuries, but also even before that with your family situation. So, looking back on your younger self, what would you say to him about where you are now?
BB: Everything boils down to perseverance. Keep fighting hard and keep doing the right thing. I tell everybody all the time, it's all about perseverance and having a positive mindset—regardless of all the negativity that goes on around you, your environment or whatever the case may be. You’ve got to have a positive mindset. Things will work out if you stay positive.
I never imagined that I would be where I'm at right now. I've always been good at athletics. So when I became an amputee, I just had to figure out a new thing. You’ve got to figure out what works and what you're going to be happy with, experiment with different things and try new things, and never be afraid of change.
That's another thing that a lot of people have a hard time with: change. For example, becoming an amputee after having two legs, it's a tough transition to figure out what you're going to do with yourself. But you gotta make do [laughs].
SP: It is a big difference dealing with it since you were born, versus where you spent most of your life able-bodied. That transition has got to be tough.
BB: Yeah. I didn't want it to sound like I was taking anything away from those that had to deal with it their entire life. We all know what kids are like, and what other people are like, when they see people in wheelchairs, when they see people with a walker. When I walk around and people glance down and I'm wearing shorts and they see that I'm an above-knee amputee, I still get stares. They had to deal with it their whole life, whereas I only had to deal with it since 2013.
But at the same time, and I can only speak for myself, it's hard to go through that transition period of being able to walk, run, jump, and then all of a sudden, you can't. Obviously, I can walk, but I can't run or jump.
But it's brought me to some really good things since I became an amputee. I wouldn't have ever thought I was going to be any type of Olympian or Paralympian when I had two legs. It never even crossed my mind that that would even be a possibility.
That's why as I said earlier, “Think positive, positive things will happen.”
I wouldn't have ever thought I was going to be any type of Olympian or Paralympian when I had two legs. It never even crossed my mind that that would even be a possibility.
SP: At 49, you are on the older side of the athletes I’ve spoken with for this series. How is it having all this life experience, and then comparing yourself to the younger athletes that are coming up?
BB: What I've dealt with in life allows me to perform at this level. As far as being on the Paralympic team, I have that mindset of, “Everything has been about keeping a positive mindset and overcoming.” So if I'm going to be successful on this Paralympic team, then I'm gonna have to push even harder. I'm going to be 50 in June. And recovery is tough, longer, and I'm sore a little bit more than I would be when I was in my 20s and 30s.
But at the same time, I enjoy talking to some of the guys on the team and they're like, “Gosh man, how do you do this at 49?” Most of them are like, “I didn't even know you were that old.” I'm like, “Yeah, thanks.” [Laughs]. I enjoy being the old guy out there competing.
SP: You joined the military to serve the country and now on Team USA, you're also serving the country, in a different way. How does it feel to be representing the U.S. in this way, compared to having represented and served as a soldier in the military?
BB: Just as proud because I can still wear the flag on my shoulder, wear the Team USA shirts, and hear the national anthem. Obviously, it's a different element when you're in the military serving, compared to an athlete serving. At the same time, it's all the same. We could still have that flag—whether it's on your chest or on your shoulder. For me, it's always been about the red white and blue, and I’m proud of it, regardless of all the craziness that goes on. You take the good with the bad, and you move on and you move forward and you keep trucking. That's all you can do. I'm proud either way. I'm glad that I'm able to still serve and represent the country.
Published on March 6, 2024
Words by Samantha Pak
Samantha Pak (she/her) is an award-winning Cambodian American journalist from the Seattle area and co-editor in chief for JoySauce. She spends more time than she’ll admit shopping for books than actually reading them, and has made it her mission to show others how amazing Southeast Asian people are. Follow her on Twitter at @iam_sammi and on Instagram at @sammi.pak.