Hairy Butthole Ep. 18: Victims of victims (with Jeremy Holt)

Youngmi talks to Jeremy Holt about their experiences as a transracial adoptee and nonbinary person

(CW: SA) This week, Youngmi Mayer talks to Jeremy Holt (graphic novel writer) about their identity as a transracial adoptee and nonbinary person. Jeremy talks about how growing up in an all-white community, they couldn’t recognize their reflection as their own. They also discuss the reason they set out to explore their Asian identity. Jeremy also shares a sad story about a reaction their friend had to hearing about their sexual assault, and how that person’s reaction stemmed from his inability to process his own sexual assault and victimhood.

Hosted by Youngmi Mayer

Youngmi Mayer is a standup comedian and single mom based in New York City. She explores topics of Asian identity, biracial identity, feminism and growing up poor in her work.