Hairy Butthole Ep. 17: In and Out of the Closet (with James Tison)

How hiding and lying about who you are can have a lasting impact

This week, Youngmi Mayer talks to James Tison (standup comedian) about the impact living in the closet for the first 15 years of their life had on them. Being taught to hide and lie about their personality has had a lasting impact on them, in ways that are visible to this day. They discuss learning how their parents’ emotions were deemed more important than their own, leading them to believe that there is no room for their own emotions. Youngmi and James also joke about their times doing open mics and standup shows in the days before the pandemic.

Hosted by Youngmi Mayer

Youngmi Mayer is a standup comedian and single mom based in New York City. She explores topics of Asian identity, biracial identity, feminism and growing up poor in her work.